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The reason people don’t appreciate or seem to understand "love" these days is because it takes WORK 


It’s not easy

And it shouldn’t be

Because you should want to fight for something that you really want 


It takes work to understand and support another human being, which you can’t and shouldn’t want to control

every day



We must be our own before we can belong to someone else. 



It takes hard work, trust (!) and a hella lot of patience to actually stick around and work things out when it seems like everything is going the wrong way



Most people don’t have the guts to stay in a real relationship today. 


We’re getting bored to easily 


Distracted even


And lazy

It’s not as easy as I thought it would be, so I might as well go and fuck it all up! 



We have the tendency to believe that "Love Solves All Problems"

Which it doesn’t


Love solves absolutely nothing! 


Showing up, and actually staying, even when things get tough, for someone else does! 


Love takes time. 

Love is a 24/7, every day hard work 

you need to put in the time

effort

and the holy grail aka 

T R U S T ! 


Most important 


You need to trust

Your partner must be able to trust you back

And you need to deserve it

Trust doesn’t show up out of the thin air



"

Where there’s no trust 


There is no relationship 



Where there’s no trust


There is no love

"




/ best regards 

Me


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I have the guts to love

I’ve proven it to myself several times 


I just choose not to 


Because honestly 

I don’t think there’s anyone out there who can love me back the way I can love them 


And that pretty much sums it all up

(One-sided relationships never really do the thing)


&

I’m to god damn good

The let someone treat me badly

(And calling it love)

Ever again 



I’m out!


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