The reason people don’t appreciate or seem to understand "love" these days is because it takes WORK
It’s not easy
And it shouldn’t be
Because you should want to fight for something that you really want
It takes work to understand and support another human being, which you can’t and shouldn’t want to control
every day
We must be our own before we can belong to someone else.
It takes hard work, trust (!) and a hella lot of patience to actually stick around and work things out when it seems like everything is going the wrong way
Most people don’t have the guts to stay in a real relationship today.
We’re getting bored to easily
Distracted even
And lazy
It’s not as easy as I thought it would be, so I might as well go and fuck it all up!
We have the tendency to believe that "Love Solves All Problems"
Which it doesn’t
Love solves absolutely nothing!
Showing up, and actually staying, even when things get tough, for someone else does!
Love takes time.
Love is a 24/7, every day hard work
you need to put in the time
effort
and the holy grail aka
T R U S T !
Most important
You need to trust
Your partner must be able to trust you back
And you need to deserve it
Trust doesn’t show up out of the thin air
"
Where there’s no trust
There is no relationship
Where there’s no trust
There is no love
"
/ best regards
Me
I have the guts to love
I’ve proven it to myself several times
I just choose not to
Because honestly
I don’t think there’s anyone out there who can love me back the way I can love them
And that pretty much sums it all up
(One-sided relationships never really do the thing)
&
I’m to god damn good
The let someone treat me badly
(And calling it love)
Ever again
I’m out!
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